MaryAnne, sorry you are having such a rough time with your own health and that of far-away family. Long distance travel takes it out of you though, doesn't it? Wishing you strength to enjoy enjoy the holiday season and the forthcoming wedding.
I'm another who appreciates all your efforts behind the scenes. None of us can complain, if and when you do decide to pull the plug, but you have to do what's right for YOU. Good to know UKS will be here for at least the next few weeks. Take care of yourself.