To use a CraftROBO pro with a modern Windows PC you would need to first of all update the firmware after which you could use the Graphtec Studio software. (which is a very much like a pro version of Silhouette Studio)
You can download the required firmware and software from Graphtec America at this link:
https://www.graphtecamerica.com/cp-download-ce5000-40
As for making the Cameo quieter; there isn't much you can do because the noise is mainly caused by the materials used, i.e. the plastic resonates the noise. This is why the CraftROBO pro is quieter, because it has a metal chassis and drive cogs with rubber rollers.